KIND OF MY FRIENDS

KIND OF MY FRIENDS
There are many important things in each person’s life. Depending on a lot of elements such as character, ambition or demand, these things can be family, friends, money, work or love. For me, beside family, friendship is the essential feeling, even it controls my life. As a student of university, I began the independent life without my family. Thanks to my friends, they saved me from the solitude and the darkness of sorrowfulness. In fact, everyone has many friends and depending on the feeling which we give them, we can divide friends into three categories that are close friend, slight close friend and social friends.
The luckiest thing which God give to each person is a close friend. An intimate friend can be formed between two people who have the same or different sex or age; however, it is not easy to have a true close friendship. In the life, our close friend is like another member of our family, even he understand us more than our parents. Having many ways to express and improve our friendship; nonetheless, it has common expression. For example, there is a couple of close friend learning in the same class. They often meet, talk, smile, play each other but not bored. They are ready to share everything, including secret. They love their close friends more than themselves; they are willing to sacrifice themselves to help friends. Being an intimate friend, their feeling will be never changed although they have not met each other for a long time. To be honest, we can not show all expression of the true close friendship because it never finishes.
Another kind of friend is the slight close friends. They can be classmate, colleague, drinking companion, etc. Because of having common things, they feel comfortable to talk about the same thing. For example, with students, they can discuss a subject or exchange views on the club which they join together. To colleague, when they meet each other, they always to talk about their job, project, the boss or salary. Actually, those relationships can not stop immediately if they finish their work. On the other hand, it is easy to become the fairly good friends if they know how to improve it. Our circle of slight close friend has been widening because of our diverse life.
We have a lot of social friends. They are friends in society, but they are not true friends. Like other people, I also have many social friends; I know them through my classmates, my roommates or my brother. Whenever I see them, I just greet them by smiling or asking a simple question like as “Where are you going? Or are you going to school?” .What is an insipid conversation! So, to make these relationships closer, we need to spend more time to improve and discover their interest.
In conclusion, it is very meaningful for us to have many friends. In fact, having a close friend is difficult; however, we can be easy to make relationship with slight close friends and social friends. Friendship is often formed from the feeling, so it can last or finish anytime. Thus, we need to respect the friendship which we have and spend more time to make our relationship better and better.